Family Vs. Wifey


I have a fiance and we have been together for a year and a month now.

I love her truly but my family just cannot accept the fact that I am marrying her some time in the future. I love my family and I don’t want to have to end up choosing. The problem is, my mom doesn’t accept her and her mom doesn’t accept me. I don’t know what to do anymore. :( -Andrew

Dear Drew,

This is a tough one. Now I don’t know the reasons why they don’t accept y’alls love but you may get to a point where you have to choose. Now why they don’t like you two together? Are you guys too young? Is one of you hella old and on of you hella young? Did one of you just get out of prison? what ever the reason, if you really love her and she love you then be ready to choose your wifey over them.

Maybe once they see that you are going to marry her regardless of their thoughts they may ease up a bit. Good luck!


Bon Qui Qui


  1. Paige, November 12, 2015:

    I had a similar situation, and it should work out just like your said. My fiance is nine years older than me and we met right after I got out of high school, so my parents didn’t like him for the first three years. But we’re on year three now, and they are okay with each other, we’re even doing Thanksgiving together this year!

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