June 25, 2012

Mr. Right!

Bon qui qui, I have a good friend who is going thru a divorce from a bad marriage with a loser and is now with someone who is a real nice guy, yet i feel she just hooked up with the first nice guy to pay her any attention and...

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June 18, 2012

Family Vs. Wifey

BQQ, I have a fiance and we have been together for a year and a month now. I love her truly but my family just cannot accept the fact that I am marrying her some time in the future. I love my family and I don’t want to have to end...

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June 11, 2012

Don’t Be A Hater

BQQ, I have a friend whose daughter is being played at school. She’s a nice girl, and real sweet, but some little punks put color in her hair and tried to shake her down for her piggy bank. Now I am a church lady, but I was raised in the...

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June 5, 2012


Dear Bon Qui Qui, I have a friend who is smart, beautiful, and funny. However, she does not believe those things about herself. She constantly puts herself down because she THINKS she is fat (when she is an absolutely healthy weight) and stupid (even though she has a college degree...

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May 29, 2012


All my girl friends have found guys that are cute & funny. I’m the ONLY single one in the group! It’s freaking me out because, even though we’re young, it seems like I’ll never find that certain someone. How can I get guys to notice me enough to at...

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May 21, 2012

Ruu Momma

Dear Bon Qui Qui, My mom is in her seventies and lives alone now that my dad passed away. She always wants me and my kids to come to dinner at her house on Sundays and holidays, but we hate to go because 1) she never sits down, and...

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May 14, 2012

Deep breath

My husband is driving me nuts! When we argue its actually just me talking the whole time he never responds or says anything back to me. I go off like a crazy lady and all he says well looks like I have something to work on. (Help I want...

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May 7, 2012

Cover up…

My girl doesn’t know how to cover up. I’m down with no bra every now and then, but every time we go out? How do I fix it? – JKC

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May 1, 2012


I have been with my boyfriend for a couple years now, and things went sour, so we decided to take a break. During this break I met a guy who is really cute, but in the process of a divorce 🙁 My ex wants to get back together now,...

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